Experts have long noted that men require much less time to become aroused than women. This can impact a couple’s sex life, with the woman left unsatisfied because sex was too short. A few seconds and a single glance at his partner’s naked body may be enough for a man to become aroused. Women, on the other hand, become aroused much more slowly, so it’s important to remember that foreplay should last at least 10 minutes. In practice, this rarely happens and is usually limited to just a few kisses and touches. Let’s take a closer look at why men become aroused and climax quickly.
During arousal, a man wants to insert his penis into his partner’s vagina and climax as quickly as possible. This is due to a natural instinct aimed at reproduction. During mating, animals are exposed to a certain risk, as they lose concentration and may be unprepared for attack from other animals. The same applies to primitive humans, who could be attacked by predators during mating. This instinct still exists in men, causing them to quickly become aroused and climax. However, a woman’s body is designed in such a way that it takes a certain amount of time for natural lubrication to be produced. A woman may also become aroused gradually, so a few minutes of sex will not bring her pleasure. In men, rapid ejaculation is not considered a problem, although recently, specialists have considered it a pathology that requires treatment. Previously, sex was only needed for fertilization, but now intimacy is primarily for the satisfaction of both men and women.
Many women are unsure how to cope if their man becomes aroused and climaxes quickly. In this case, it’s important to talk to your partner and explain that it takes her much longer to reach orgasm. You can also use special means to prolong the duration of sex, such as thicker contraceptives or special lubricants that delay orgasm in men.
If your partner is intimate rarely, the duration of intercourse will be short. If sex occurs at least three times a week, it’s easier for a man to control his ejaculation. There are also special exercises for the groin muscles that can help improve self-control.
Also, pay attention to the pace of sex. Long-lasting sex won’t happen if a man is overly aroused.
Sexual desire between partners can be controlled, so it’s worth talking to your man about focusing more on foreplay. It’s important to let him know that a woman needs more time to warm up. You can also give him tips during sex on which erogenous zones to engage to maximize pleasure. Men enjoy pleasing their partners, so you might try asking him to stimulate your partner’s clitoris. He might also want to perform cunnilingus, which can also help prolong intercourse. It’s worth remembering that there are special medications that can help prolong intercourse, but they have a number of side effects to be aware of.
It’s best to have sex with your partner more often so he can better control his ejaculation. There are also special exercises that target the groin muscles. During intimacy, you can distract your partner with conversation so that his thoughts aren’t solely focused on getting his partner pregnant. There are positions that can last much longer, so it’s worth trying them during sex.
